Sunday, March 3, 2013

Kicked To The Curb


Well, well, well…. The jerk got booted from the site!  I knew he wouldn’t last long making personal attacks on people like that.  Below is the note the Admin, Stargoyle, sent me.

I did find the BLOG, and I do have a request.  Since you mention the site in your blog, now that he's been banned, could you make a comment on your Blog that the Admin at ANRSpace.com kicked him to the curb?  That way people will know that we don’t allow that kind of "crap" on the site.
I'd appreciate it but, if you don't think that's ok, I'll understand.
Thanks.
Stargoyle

Saturday, March 2, 2013

Wanna Talk About Me Me Me

About Berniceannab
Posted On Mar 2, 2013 12:39 PM CST by youtalkintome7

Hey guys - be careful with this one.  She poses as some intellectual, but really, she's just looking for attention, and fodder for her blog (because her life is probably really empty, and has nothing else to look forward to in real life).
Do not talk to her, cuz she WILL draw you in by seeminig cool at first, then turn psycho out of nowhere; she will bait you into finding the most tiny little thing about you that doesnt meet her expectation of perfection, then snap! Seriously...she has issues, and cant hold a social conversation with anybody.  At the very least, she can at least let you know her thoughts and disagreements; not react like a 14 yr old high schooler, who does immature things like posting conversations online in an attempt to validate an otherwise miserable and empty life.

The above is a blog on ANRspace.com about me.
The author of this blog is the same person with whom I had the conversation in my blog titled  PLEASE - prove me wrong! .

After I posted my blog, this guy wrote the blog above in the blog area on ANRspace.com.

I’ll address him here and then he won’t be awarded anymore of my valuable thoughts, time, or attention.

He said, She poses as some intellectual,”    I “pose” as nothing.  I do not pose at all, ever, anywhere.  If he forms opinions and then later experience some internal conflict with his predetermined ideas, then that is his own problem.  I never discussed my profession or intellect with him.

He said, she's just looking for attention, ”    Well, let’s give this fella a cookie!  He figured one out for himself.  YES YES YES…  I am looking for attention.  Initially attention, then a friend, then a relationship, then marriage, and finally, ANR.  It all starts with attention!  I’m surprised he figured this one out, though, really I am.

He said, fodder for her blog,”   If you give me fodder, then I shall use it. 

He said, Do not talk to her, cuz she WILL draw you in by seeminig cool at first,”   Let’s start by addressing this grammar and typing, they are pitiful.  There, having that done, I’ll say it again, if he forms opinions and then later experience some internal conflict with his predetermined ideas, then that is his own problem.  Clearly, this guy has lots of self conflict.

He said, turn psycho out of nowhere,”    Well, this is an interesting point.  Being that psycho is defined as being crazy or insane.  Being that I’m neither, this guy is clearing behaving slanderously.

He said, she will bait you into finding the most tiny little thing about you that doesnt meet her expectation of perfection, then snap!,”    I didn’t bait him…  He approached me!  He started a conversation with me.  Also, as I never told him anything about my expectations, again, this poor, poor man is delusional.  I have no expectation of perfection.  I do have an expectation that men wishing to have ANR will at the very least know what it entails, and the process by which is achieved.

He said, Seriously...she has issues, and cant hold a social conversation with anybody,”    Sure I have issues, we all do.  However with regard to this guy’s claim that I have issues, it is SOOO true!  I have an issue with the fact that he thinks he is just going to find a lactating woman that is going to have ANR with him.  Especially with his lack of knowledge on the whole ANR initiation process. 

   He said, cant hold a social conversation with anybody,”          As this guy has never seen me have or attempt to have a conversation with anyone, this guy’s claims are pointless.

He said, At the very least, she can at least let you know her thoughts and disagreements,”    I did tell him my thoughts and disagree with him.  That is what upset this poor, little man.  It’s sad, really, I think.

He said, not react like a 14 yr old high schooler, who does immature things like posting conversations online  I told him up front, I had a blog, and then he asked me to not post our convo.  I never even commented on the request much less agree not to post.    


He said, in an attempt to validate an otherwise miserable and empty life.   I never attempt to validate anything. And, since he doesn’t know me or anything about me, he has no basis to comment on the quality of my life.

A life of which he will, thankfully, never have a part.

For the record, I couldn't care less what this guy thinks.
Two things come to mind with this loser… 

1.  If he is harassing me, then he is ignoring someone else who may not be able to handle his negativism.
2.  There is no such thing as bad publicity.  He is bring attention to me and my blog.  Yay me!!

Neither Comatose Nor Hibernating



I have been absent from my blog, and was planning a post to catch up the one or followers as to the “why” of my absence.  Here is a comment from a recent blog on ANRspace.com that was written about me…

“I like following her blog -- and since there are 2 weeks between her Feb 13 and March post, I do suspect she has a 'life' apart from her blog unless she was comatose or hibernating.”

I will not address the negative person nor their comments here.  This blog is about why I’ve been absent.

Straight to the point – Not only am I a full time substitute teacher, I’m also a coach, the President of my local library advisory board and the Chair of the ArtHop committee; the library is putting on an ArtHop in May.

In my private life, I’m a single mom.  My daughter is also involved in a fair amount of activities outside the school: NHS, Jr. Library Council, Christian Fellowship youth group, and was on my team I coached.   So on top of keeping up w/ my busy schedule, I also keep up with hers.

If I didn’t mention it before, and I think I did…

My ultimate goal is to be married sometime in the next 4 years and begin working towards ANR after marriage.

Once my daughter has entered college and moves out, I want to be able to totally focus on my new(ish) relationship with my hubby and build a life with him.  At least, that IS the plan.  I guess only time will tell how successful I am in achieving this goal.

As with any journey, there are times when one must take a pause, or take a side trip, etc…

That is all these last two weeks have been.  A small pause in this journey to bring home the last two weeks with my team.  These final two weeks of the season were incredibly busy.  I didn’t date; I didn’t research; I barely slept.  I’d start my days at 5am, get ready for work, tend the chickens, and then leave.  I had work, then coaching duties, and meetings in between or after.  Many nights I didn’t get home until around 10pm.  Then I had to check over my daughter’s homework, and do what I do every weeknight to get ready for the next day.

I’d get to bed around 12am, and have to start my day again at 5am.

Yes, now I DO need to hibernate and sleep for a while… it won’t happen, but yes, I do have a life.

Stay tuned as I will be blogging soon about the 2 guys I had dates with ~ a total of 3 dates.

Friday, March 1, 2013

PLEASE - prove me wrong!




I had a private chat with youtalkintome7 from ANRspace.com   his comments are labeled You ToMe?  My private thoughts as we conversed are in RED, bold, and italics.

11:05:50 PM
You ToMe?: so i want to be honest with you...you seem like a really great gal but im hoping to find someone whos lactating...  (UM, YEH…  good luck buddy, what do you have to offer them? And why should they give you the gift?  You didn’t put in any of the work, you just want the benefits.. oh wait, you’re a typical guy, I get it now!)
11:06:31 PM
BABs: and honestly - most of them who are (already lactating) - they are already in ANR w/ s'one
11:06:55 PM
BABs: most of us won't lactate until we are in a solid, stable relationship
11:07:09 PM
BABs: do you have any idea what it takes to bring the milk in?
11:07:21 PM
You ToMe?: lots of pumping?
11:07:23 PM
You ToMe?: stimulating?
11:07:33 PM
You ToMe?: getting knocked up? (wow – and he’s classy … NOT!)
11:07:37 PM
BABs: OMG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO  (at this point I’m thinking he is SUPER uneducated on the topic)
11:07:46 PM
BABs: 10-20 mins per side every 2 hours
11:07:53 PM
BABs: just like a child would do
11:08:01 PM
BABs: rather a new born
11:08:02 PM
You ToMe?: what do you mean?
11:08:08 PM
BABs: dry suckling
11:08:17 PM
BABs: it is what causes the milk to come in
11:08:22 PM
BABs: you start dry: w/ your spouse (partner, lover, what-ever-name-you-put-on-it)
11:08:46 PM
BABs: she nurses him 10-20 mins per breast, every 2 hours
BABs: so 40 mins total (give or take)  and then again, repeat it all over again 2 hours later
11:09:04 PM
BABs: another 40 mins
11:09:11 PM
BABs: and so it goes around the clock
11:09:19 PM
You ToMe?: so you’re saying when a women gets pregnant she doesn't naturally produce
11:09:25 PM
BABs: and then you add in some mother's milk tea, fenu, dom, or whatever the two of you choose
11:09:25 PM
You ToMe?: it starts from scratch
11:09:28 PM
BABs: oh yeh, then sure
11:09:35 PM
BABs: but most - they are past child years
11:09:36 PM
BABs: lol
11:09:47 PM
BABs: this is NOT a relationship for new moms
11:10:15 PM
BABs: you seriously need to do some research
11:10:33 PM
You ToMe?: yea...can you do me a favor and not quote any of our conversations for your blog post? (because you don’t want people to know what you are all about!)
11:10:50 PM
BABs: and if the guy isn't there to nurse for a feeding once the milk has come in... OUCH!
11:10:54 PM
BABs: she is miserable
11:11:03 PM
You ToMe?: yea i know about that, gotta keep the flow going
11:11:27 PM
BABs: yup, or she can get infections etc
11:14:34 PM
BABs: so, you’re thinking you are just gonna find s'one who's already lactating????
11:14:55 PM
You ToMe?: yea?
11:15:21 PM
BABs: i wouldn't expect that unless you begin dating a single mom who decides to nurse
11:17:27 PM
You ToMe?: so how long does the process take anyways? (because you just want the rewards and don’t have to work for it… got your number!  Am I talking to you?  not for much longer!)
11:17:58 PM
BABs: depends  (but he suddenly logged out right here)

THEN…  ON FRIDAY MORNING…  HE DELETED ME….  With this comment to me in my inbox on the ANRspace site.
Also...I denied your friend request! Ha-Ha! Let that one sink in on a Friday morning ;-)

And so, dear readers, as I’m sure youve already guessed… my search continues.  I fear this guy is the epitome of 90% of males… UGH! 

PLEASE!!!!    PLEASE!!!! PROVE ME WRONG!!

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

One Of These Things Is Not Like The Other





I have quit lactating as I am seeking much more out of a relationship.
Hmmm….and here I’m looking for a relationship that must include ANR or it’s a “no-go.”  For me, the ANR is the ‘much more’ in a relationship.  I have had very successful relationships in the past that, for whatever reason, have ended.  They were enjoyable at the time. 

I’m seeking much more out of a relationship and that is why I’m adding ANR.

I have serious questions… is the R. based on ANR? Or was ANR a part of the R?  These sound like the same thing, but they are two completely different things.

A relationship based on ANR doesn’t necessarily have the trust, faithfulness, honesty, sense of humor, etc… that a regular relationship have .

A regular relationship that includes ANR as a part of all the aforementioned things is, in most cases, ideal.

I am a christian and do live the life, no gamer here.
Does being a Christian prevent you (personally) from having ANR?
I don’t personally find anything Biblically wrong with a marriage that includes ANR.  Please respond as I’m quite interested in hearing your views on this subject.

IT IS DOING SOMETHING FOR HER!!


More comments from ANRspace.com…

I have curled up next to her in the morning and faux-nursed, Excuse me, but what is faux nursing?  Is that just pretending to nurse?   Is that nursing w/o lactation?  

but it doesn't seem to do anything for her (although the resultant sex is always nice ;) .  What is wrong with you?  If you are “faux-nursing” whatever the hell that means, and the result is nice sex… IT IS DOING SOMETHING FOR HER!! 

Speaking as a woman w/ very low sex drive and it being very hard to achieve orgasm whatsoever, if you are getting “nice sex” as a result, then honey, it’s doin’ s’thing for her.  ** smacks forehead, "good grief" **

Perhaps she doesn’t want to admit it. 
Perhaps she doesn’t want to lactate.
Perhaps she doesn’t want it to lead to sex every time.
Perhaps a whole damn lot of things… seriously!

I read things like this and still cannot believe that men “don’t get it”!

Talk to her about this!  Don’t be shy.  If she is shy, talk to her after making love, in the dark…. Trust me, she’ll be way more honest in this situation.


I've always admired her breasts, but she is not into ANR or my suckling really.  Speaking as a woman w/ very low sex drive and it being very hard to achieve orgasm whatsoever, if you are getting “nice sex” as a result, then honey, it’s doin’ s’thing for her.  Yes, I repeated this answer! You needed to read it again.  

That partially explains why I am here and not in bed w/ her right now. Talk to her! Ask her what she wants in bed.  Tell her to give you step by step instructions. AND. BE. PREPARED. TO. FOLLOW. THEM!

Unless she tells you, “What I want in bed is to be left completely and totally alone forever.” There is room for improvement!

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