Friday, March 1, 2013

PLEASE - prove me wrong!




I had a private chat with youtalkintome7 from ANRspace.com   his comments are labeled You ToMe?  My private thoughts as we conversed are in RED, bold, and italics.

11:05:50 PM
You ToMe?: so i want to be honest with you...you seem like a really great gal but im hoping to find someone whos lactating...  (UM, YEH…  good luck buddy, what do you have to offer them? And why should they give you the gift?  You didn’t put in any of the work, you just want the benefits.. oh wait, you’re a typical guy, I get it now!)
11:06:31 PM
BABs: and honestly - most of them who are (already lactating) - they are already in ANR w/ s'one
11:06:55 PM
BABs: most of us won't lactate until we are in a solid, stable relationship
11:07:09 PM
BABs: do you have any idea what it takes to bring the milk in?
11:07:21 PM
You ToMe?: lots of pumping?
11:07:23 PM
You ToMe?: stimulating?
11:07:33 PM
You ToMe?: getting knocked up? (wow – and he’s classy … NOT!)
11:07:37 PM
BABs: OMG NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO  (at this point I’m thinking he is SUPER uneducated on the topic)
11:07:46 PM
BABs: 10-20 mins per side every 2 hours
11:07:53 PM
BABs: just like a child would do
11:08:01 PM
BABs: rather a new born
11:08:02 PM
You ToMe?: what do you mean?
11:08:08 PM
BABs: dry suckling
11:08:17 PM
BABs: it is what causes the milk to come in
11:08:22 PM
BABs: you start dry: w/ your spouse (partner, lover, what-ever-name-you-put-on-it)
11:08:46 PM
BABs: she nurses him 10-20 mins per breast, every 2 hours
BABs: so 40 mins total (give or take)  and then again, repeat it all over again 2 hours later
11:09:04 PM
BABs: another 40 mins
11:09:11 PM
BABs: and so it goes around the clock
11:09:19 PM
You ToMe?: so you’re saying when a women gets pregnant she doesn't naturally produce
11:09:25 PM
BABs: and then you add in some mother's milk tea, fenu, dom, or whatever the two of you choose
11:09:25 PM
You ToMe?: it starts from scratch
11:09:28 PM
BABs: oh yeh, then sure
11:09:35 PM
BABs: but most - they are past child years
11:09:36 PM
BABs: lol
11:09:47 PM
BABs: this is NOT a relationship for new moms
11:10:15 PM
BABs: you seriously need to do some research
11:10:33 PM
You ToMe?: yea...can you do me a favor and not quote any of our conversations for your blog post? (because you don’t want people to know what you are all about!)
11:10:50 PM
BABs: and if the guy isn't there to nurse for a feeding once the milk has come in... OUCH!
11:10:54 PM
BABs: she is miserable
11:11:03 PM
You ToMe?: yea i know about that, gotta keep the flow going
11:11:27 PM
BABs: yup, or she can get infections etc
11:14:34 PM
BABs: so, you’re thinking you are just gonna find s'one who's already lactating????
11:14:55 PM
You ToMe?: yea?
11:15:21 PM
BABs: i wouldn't expect that unless you begin dating a single mom who decides to nurse
11:17:27 PM
You ToMe?: so how long does the process take anyways? (because you just want the rewards and don’t have to work for it… got your number!  Am I talking to you?  not for much longer!)
11:17:58 PM
BABs: depends  (but he suddenly logged out right here)

THEN…  ON FRIDAY MORNING…  HE DELETED ME….  With this comment to me in my inbox on the ANRspace site.
Also...I denied your friend request! Ha-Ha! Let that one sink in on a Friday morning ;-)

And so, dear readers, as I’m sure youve already guessed… my search continues.  I fear this guy is the epitome of 90% of males… UGH! 

PLEASE!!!!    PLEASE!!!! PROVE ME WRONG!!

1 comment:

  1. I would say that it is more like 96% to 98% of men are just after the quick fetish or looking for a "mommy" whatever the frak that is and it makes it very very hard for someone like me who is seeking a long loving relationship almost impossible to find someone. I almost feel like being same sex relationship is easier publicly than an ANR lifestyle because there is such astigmatism associated with it because of all the freaks, fetishes and losers out there that make it bad for the rest trying to find or have that loving relationship. This is the main reason my ex-wife wouldn't keep up with it after our daughter stopped nursing.I've only actively been searching for an ANR partner for a week now and I have meet with nothing but skepticism and resistance because of all the freaks out there who have scared every single woman away from an ANR lifestyle by either just seeking the fetish or not willing to do the work involved. I have a feeling that I will likely not find a partner because of all the losers out there.

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