What kind of
ANR is right for you?
This was a recent ANR communiqué… my comments will follow.
“I have read
about ANR couples that just nurse & cuddle
and others
that use nursing as foreplay and still others that
use it as a variation
on NSA relationships. What do you
think?”
Well, I guess let me
address each type listed here from my point of view.
Just Nurse & Cuddle – For me, just nurse and cuddle would be okay most of
the time. I have read of some couples who nurse 3-5 times a day… if suckling
leads to making love (used as foreplay) every single time, me thinks
they’d be raw inside of a week. Unless my
partner (or I) was ill and still wanted to suckle, nursing would usually lead
to making love at least once a day. I
personally don’t need/want to make love more than once a day, so if I were on
ANR schedule of 3-5 times a day, the majority of the time would just be
nurse/cuddle time.
For those who choose ONLY
nurse and cuddle and don’t allow it to be foreplay for love making… they must
be some strong willed individuals. I
honestly cannot see how suckling and being suckled can NOT lead to lovemaking
at least part of the time.
Nursing as Foreplay – I partially covered my thoughts on this above, but
let me explain my thoughts further… When
I think of ANR, I picture a man spending 20-40 minutes at a time nursing, and
doing this every 8-10 hours depending on their schedules, etc… While I would always want suckling as a
portion of foreplay, there are many more activities I want in actual foreplay than
just nursing.
ANR NSA – ANR with No
Strings Attached (or NO SEX ALLOWED)
– yes, I can easily see this happening. I’ve actually contemplated and began
working towards it. For the nay-sayers
reading this… hear me out.
I have wanted ANR for 6
years. At one point, I wanted it so
badly that I put up an extremely discreet personal ad requesting assistance
with inducing relactation and was going to try to set up a schedule of 4-7 men
to come and begin ANR but with no strings attached.
These men would suckle for
10-20 mins per side on a set shift on set days.
There would be no kissing, fondling, sex, phone calls, dates, etc… it
would be a service performed, like a taxi driver picking up a fare. They would perform their service and leave.
My ad rec’d overwhelming response. In the midst of setting up the schedule,
getting test results, and background checks done, my father was diagnosed with
an inoperable, terminal, aneurysm. I had
to set aside my personal life and begin commuting 75 minutes one way every day,
as well as work around my work schedule and my daughter’s schedule. I just couldn’t do it. The timing was awful.
Since then, life happened,
and now that I write this, I realize it has been closer to 8 years instead of 6… WOW!
I think I just got a
little more anxious, sad, and determined to have my ANR this time.
