What kind of ANR is right for you?

What kind of ANR is right for you?

This was a recent ANR communiqué… my comments will follow.

“I have read about ANR couples that just nurse & cuddle

and others that use nursing as foreplay and still others that

use it as a variation on NSA relationships.  What do you think?”

Well, I guess let me address each type listed here from my point of view.

Just Nurse & Cuddle – For me, just nurse and cuddle would be okay most of the time. I have read of some couples who nurse 3-5 times a day… if suckling leads to making love (used as foreplay) every single time, me thinks they’d be raw inside of a week.  Unless my partner (or I) was ill and still wanted to suckle, nursing would usually lead to making love at least once a day.  I personally don’t need/want to make love more than once a day, so if I were on ANR schedule of 3-5 times a day, the majority of the time would just be nurse/cuddle time.

For those who choose ONLY nurse and cuddle and don’t allow it to be foreplay for love making… they must be some strong willed individuals.  I honestly cannot see how suckling and being suckled can NOT lead to lovemaking at least part of the time.

Nursing as Foreplay – I partially covered my thoughts on this above, but let me explain my thoughts further…  When I think of ANR, I picture a man spending 20-40 minutes at a time nursing, and doing this every 8-10 hours depending on their schedules, etc…  While I would always want suckling as a portion of foreplay, there are many more activities I want in actual foreplay than just nursing.

ANR NSA – ANR with No Strings Attached (or NO SEX ALLOWED) – yes, I can easily see this happening. I’ve actually contemplated and began working towards it.  For the nay-sayers reading this… hear me out.

I have wanted ANR for 6 years.  At one point, I wanted it so badly that I put up an extremely discreet personal ad requesting assistance with inducing relactation and was going to try to set up a schedule of 4-7 men to come and begin ANR but with no strings attached. 

These men would suckle for 10-20 mins per side on a set shift on set days.  There would be no kissing, fondling, sex, phone calls, dates, etc… it would be a service performed, like a taxi driver picking up a fare.  They would perform their service and leave.

My ad rec’d overwhelming response.  In the midst of setting up the schedule, getting test results, and background checks done, my father was diagnosed with an inoperable, terminal, aneurysm.  I had to set aside my personal life and begin commuting 75 minutes one way every day, as well as work around my work schedule and my daughter’s schedule.  I just couldn’t do it.  The timing was awful.

Since then, life happened, and now that I write this, I realize it has been closer to 8 years instead of 6…  WOW!

I think I just got a little more anxious, sad, and determined to have my ANR this time.