I posted my profile on ANRspace.com and mentioned that I was looking
for a marriage that included ANR, and that I wouldn't even enter an LTR if the
man wasn't agreeable to ANR.
Below is the advice I rec’d from someone on ANRspace.com.
“Don't settle for anybody; protect your
heart, your soul, your smile, your kindness. Most important: Do not give
your trust away. Make them earn it. Be civil, respect is earned too.”
I will be the first to admit it… I
DID settle in my first marriage and again with the father of my child. Not in regard to ANR but in regard to
life. It was not perfect, there were red
flags, and I knew there would be issues.
I didn't think the issues would become insurmountable or grow and change
in the way in which they did.
On the flip side, there is no
such thing as a perfect relationship. From
the earliest times, there has been conflict between man and woman. It started in the Garden when Eve sinned and
then convinced Adam to do it too. And the
rest, as they say, is history.
This time though, I will not
settle. I do not have the Disney
Princess syndrome (aka “I gotta have a man in my life” syndrome). I am surviving on my own. It isn't easy, but hell, it sure builds
character, and let me tell ya, I’m one hell of a character now! HA!
I have seriously been creating a
list of “must haves” for the new man in my life which will be posted in a blog
very soon. Until then, my dear ANR loving friends, rest assured, I’m not settling this time!
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